The impact of Family Photography on quality of life
The first professional image of a woman after she becomes a mother always comes with a bit of hesitation. Your body has been through the most incredible ordeal it will ever experience, you’re surviving on less sleep than you ever have before, and you are slightly concerned there may be bodily fluid of some sort in your hair. However, you’ll look back in a year and think about how thankful you are that you pushed past the discomfort of getting in front of the camera around 1 week postpartum and capture this image with this tiny baby you now revolve around. This tiny baby that no longer fits in your right hand, or your left elbow, but instead has legs that dangle to your knees.
Everyone warns you that it happens quickly, and of course they’re right. My first baby will be eight years old this summer and having a baby in the house again has made me really recognize how much my oldest is not a baby anymore, or even a little kid. So when this new grandma looked over at me and expressed sadness that she will miss so much when she has to of back home, because she knows he’ll grow so fast, I could see in her eyes she wasn’t talking about 6 day old baby J. She held back the tears in her watery eyes looking at her baby girl now holding a baby of her own, staring proudly and I could see that she was brought back to the moment it was her holding her baby girl.
Photographs are can be taken on phones or cameras at home and any photograph is better than no photograph. However, a professional photography session is an experience. It is when you can slow down and reflect on your life, feel those moments you haven’t let come through for a while, and get everyone important in the frame. It’s when you’re forced to get close with loved ones even if you didn’t know you needed that hug but OH it feels so good! It’s slowing down to breathe, to notice details, to be aware of your senses. And in the end, it’s the opportunity to decorate your home so you can bring a piece of the peace to your everyday. It’s the opportunity to make a book that you can go through as a tradition on special occasions or on tough days to pick you back up.
There is not getting these first days back, so take a few hours out, and invest in someone you trust with a portfolio you love.
Crystal Mercredi – Life and Portraits
Award Winning Photographer with:
The National Association of Professional Child Photographer
Qualified Photographer and Safety Certified through:
The Association of Professional Newborn Photographers Internationale
Come along with this family of 4 on a chilly fall day for a little lesson on how to stay warm on a cold day…Wear deliciously perfect sweaters like these to die for knits by Miou Kids, if you’ve never seen them in person you are missing one of life great treats! They are like wearing a warm hug, but that doesn’t mean you can’t also get a nice warm hug from your sister! Let your little one wrap their arms around you nice and tight. One day it will be the last time you lift your little one in your arms, and you won’t even know it at the time. It sneaks up on you, and then suddenly you realize it’s been a while and they’re too big for it. Take advantage of the years when they happily jump up into your arms and squeeze them just a little bit tighter for a little bit longer. Mommy kisses are a great way to keep warm too! Last but not least, never miss the opportunity to capture a great photo with the love of your life. So often (like always) our children become the all-encompassing focus of our lives, but taking a second to get in close and cuddle with the person who gets you most is surefire magic.
Short and Sweet Fine Art Sessions are the perfect opportunity to catch just a taste of your family’s love on a chilly day without being outside in the cold too long. Before you book a photo session consider carefully what you plan to do with the photos. This session resulted in prints throughout the family’s home to enjoy daily and cherish forever. Photographs have the ability to enrich your life by immortalizing the relationships within your family before they inevitably grow and change. Time is the one thing we can never regain, so do the closest thing and get some amazing images of this time in your life.
Delightful Perception Photography started as a hobby, turned into a fundraising opportunity, which then turned into a small business focussed on family photography needs. However, as the years have past its really become an obsession (a good friend says I should use the word passion and she’s probably right) and a huge part of the Mercredi households way of life. Through the years I’ve realized that while I love photographing families and children, I also have an obsession/passion for helping small businesses and people in their professional capacities. I’ve always loved supporting small business, but I’ve realized I have also learned a bit about business over the years, and continue to every day. It turns out I REALLY love working with small businesses! So why does all of this matter? Well, I feel a bit silly when I’m quoting for a commercial or corporate job and signing off with my whimsical and silly Delightful Perception Photography. So to be more inclusive of the direction I’m going I felt it was important to change it. The new name, Life and Portraits, feels like my big girl photographer name. It’s important to me to push myself to always become better with my compositions, with my lighting capabilities, with the range of work I can produce, and the quality of work I’m producing. The new name gives me room to grow and the expectation of timeless work focussing on what’s important to you.
What photography means to me has also changed. It’s just honestly no longer about the cute outfits and setups. I look back at the photos I’ve done of my own children in those setups and I think “Why did I do that? Why am I blocking his face with those sunglasses? Why am I distracting from my subject so much? These photos aren’t about the subject, they’re about the photo.” I want photos that are about your children, not the tutu, not the likes on Facebook, not a cool photo technique. I want the photo to capture your relationship with your child. You want a photo to make you CRY…or LAUGH, but you want it to make you FEEL! Let yourself travel through time when you see it so it brings you right back to what life was like at that time. No gimmicks, pure, honest, beautiful, lifestyle or posed art to celebrate your life as it is now.
I asked my kids to help me out with this one, and give me their advice for how to have a great 2018. Here’s what they had to say:
This one took a bit of interpretation as my littlest doesn’t talk quite yet (well she does but it’s not a language I understand). I took this to mean “Don’t hide from your problems, instead take a bite out of them!”
My super charming, not-so-little boy, said to tell jokes and have lots of tickle fights!
And my oldest says to dance to the music in your head <3
But most of all they all agree to make sure to prioritize spending quality time with the people you love the most.
Happy New Year from my family to yours, here’s to making new memories with the ones who mean the most to us <3
I have a new shirt (from my favourite local day to day clothing shop Colour Me Pretty) and it says “Mom Life is the Best Life” which I thought was the perfect title for this next blog because this stunning lady is going to be a mommy any day now!
Everyone’s journey to becoming a parent is a little bit different. When this mommy-to-be talks about her baby her eyes literally sparkle. She’s the kind of excited that makes you feel extra thankful for your own babies as well as excited for her.
Pregnancy is so beautiful, however I hear over and over from expecting moms (and remember the feeling myself) that they don’t feel beautiful. Every expecting mom I talk to thinks she is the exception that doesn’t look like the other beautiful pregnant women, and that she is bigger and not as defined in shape. I think we often have a hard time seeing ourselves as beautiful as we are to others, but also in these suddenly foreign looking bodies it can be extra difficult.
Can you believe she told me that she didn’t look like the women in the really nice maternity photos on Pinterest? I If you don’t feel the most beautiful photos have women that look like you, then it’s time to make the most beautiful photos with you! So pin away <3
And top it all off with a little bit of fun! No mommy-to-be’s were injured or in danger during the creation of these images 😉
Bodysuit is part of the Glow Bodysuit Collection by Sew Trendy Accessories https://www.sewtrendyaccessories.com
ExpectingIn a world of fast food, fast fashion, fast photography and plenty of instant answers are you taking the time to slow down and enjoy the journey? You’re probably documenting your life with your phone, because we are blessed to have amazing technology at our fingertips, but what are you doing with it once it’s documented? I know I stumble across my videos on Facebook memories or occasionally when I’m cleaning out old hard drives, which make for fun evenings of reminiscing. Our children change so much, so quickly though, that I feel I want daily reminders of who they used to be. I want reminders of who I used to be.
And so I started a photo wall and now am onto a second, and it’s changing my life. I slow down. I take the time each day to look at each photo, and each photo makes me feel something different than the others. It’s like having the opportunity to see my life flash before my eyes, without a terrible circumstance causing it haha. For me, it’s not about having a hundred images, its about having a handful of amazing images you’ll want to put on your wall so you can see them, enjoy them and relive them every single day.
As a photographer though, I see how this fast paced world we live in can make us forget or postpone things that improve our quality of life the most, and I myself have been plenty guilty of it! Don’t postpone spending time with family. Don’t postpone going on that hike, or that skate, or making that craft. Don’t postpone hanging your photos on your wall so you can enjoy your own story everyday.
Once we’re hanging photos again, really hanging them, as art not with a magnet on the fridge in a temporary way that will result in later filing it in a drawer, or worse throwing it out; then we start to see the value in investing in quality images. Suddenly those iPhone shots, while they are certainly priceless and meaningful, aren’t up to par as the only source of capturing the amazing life you have created. Suddenly hiring your neighbour because they bought a nice camera isn’t quite good enough to capture the most precious people in your life. Suddenly you realize your photos are more valuable than your daily coffee – I love coffee but even it can’t bring me the daily happiness of seeing my kids being sweet to each other posted on my real life wall each day.
Take the time to celebrate yourself. You have a short window and then it’s gone, and someday when you look back you regret not celebrating this point in your journey. Whether it’s a pregnancy, a new baby, a milestone, or a phase, live it and capture it so you can relive it once it’s gone.
Contact me if you’d like to have your life captured with love so you can enjoy it forever.
I’ve been doing a lot of thinking lately about the value of photography. Thinking about what causes a photo to be valuable, who it’s for and what the purpose of the photo really is. I love taking a multitude of different types of photos so take a read with me about my interpretation of their importance and I’d REALLY love for you to share your opinions of the value for the photos you want in your life.
The purpose of a posed, smiling, family picture is to capture loved ones together at regular points in their lives. Families change, people change and the photo freezes time. The body language tells more over the years than people may realize, like a little girl growing up knowing her mommy cuddled her so close, and in her arms is where she felt most safe. This is often the type of photo people as for to print for their mantle or walls. It’s a photo you can display next to a similar style photo taken the year before or a few years before to show how time has past.
However, my favourite things about the posed photos is the moments in between. When something truly genuine slips in like a kiss for a little sister who is biting her nails because she’s a bit shy in front of the camera. Don’t hide those young habits (that some of us never outgrow), it shouldn’t be about apparent perfection, you’re who these photos are for. It’s not about a Facebook share or a christmas card, it’s your life. It’s your children. Of course I’m not against a Facebook share! I do that ALL THE TIME, as my parents live in the southern USA and we don’t see them as often as we’d like. But thinking long term, I want our photos to be something my children can look at when they’re grown, proudly put on their walls to remind them of their relationship with me and of how much I love them. I want them to share photos with future generations. I want them to have flashbacks when they see the photos to being that little kid.
Hands down my favourite photos are the ones that show a connection between loved ones, especially mothers and their children. A connection that can’t be faked, or rehearsed, that you feel when you look at a photo even if you don’t know the people you’re looking at. The photos that can make you cry if they’re set to the right music.I value most the photos that make you feel. Whether it’s the feeling in the photo or flashing you back you to a memory of your own. I hope when you see a photo like this you remember when your children were young and ran to you in joy and sorrow because you were their answer to everything. I hope you have a photo that can take you back to that moment. A photo that gives you a flash back into what may now seem like a previous life so far removed.
This is the kind of photo I want to see everyday and hope moms have of themselves. The photo that shows you that you are an amazing mother. The photo that shows you that you did take the time to play and connect. We all get lost in the schedules and “supposed to’s” sometimes but so often we are too hard on ourselves, expecting an unrealistic perfection and more energy than even coffee could possibly provide. I want you to have the photo that shows you that you’re giving your children and awesome childhood. I want you to see how you look through their eyes.
I want to slow down and take the time to cuddle. I want to see on my walls, that I have made cuddling a priority. I want you to see on your walls how much your children love you so in the moments when things are hard you can see how important you are by looking around your house.
…and dads matter too….
…but lets face it, they always get to be the fun ones!
Don’t forget about some full family fun!
Of course there are also the photos to show the sibling relationship. In this case 2 sisters 2 years apart, who are sure to be close for life.
Each child’s individual personality needs to be captured because we all know they change so fast! The mannerisms and silliness disappear too quickly.
Lastly, as much as I treasure the images of children the most (I really do, there’s no comparison haha) I also believe it’s important for parents to have photos together, without their children. Why? Who does that? The answer is NOT ENOUGH COUPLES! You love each other! Sometimes it’s easy to forget that because you’re busy! I know you’re busy! But isn’t it amazing when you get 2 seconds together nice and close, where you can hear each others voices and really look at each other?
Even if there’s a little chaos behind the scenes?
Let your walls tell your story so you can enjoy your story everyday.
This month I was delighted to become a member of APNPI (Accredited Professional Newborn Photographers International). The organization provides safe handling techniques and testing to ensure parents their photographer has a certain level of expertise when handling their most precious little gifts. In addition to the safety aspect the organization also requires members submit an extensive portfolio of newborn, maternity and baby images to show a competence with technical skill and artistic expression. Be careful of other similar organizations which will accredit photographers if they pay a fee, and require no training, testing, or portfolio reviews. For example, when photographing young siblings like baby J and her big brother here, the standard laying on the floor photo was not a safe option. I could have tried to get a photo of big brother next to a prop, and then taken a photo of baby J in the prop, and photoshopped the 2 images together, but I would not have baby held by her big brother without an adult. Instead we used biggest brothers arms to hold her safely at a height where he could reach her, but also where she could easily be whisked away if he decided it was time to jump around or practice some karate. Though I myself have been primarily on maternity leave this year, I have made a point to shoot a newborn each season so I can keep the skills I have developed though the years and several hundred hours of training sharp. Photography is certainly a skill that can fade if not used regularly in my experience, so while I photograph daily for my own family newborn posing is something know I need to always be doing. This next pose is one I just learned last winter and practiced on my own little one in February to perfect. I vary the pose using different colours, and textures, like this felt wool used as a wrap here and this gorgeous hat by Mag Mugs.
Sweet baby J was 2 weeks only for her session, right at the end of the recommended age for photographing newborn babies in the sweet cuddly poses you typically see. My sweet spot tends to be around days 6-9 days, however every baby is different and this little doll was content as can be as long as she was wrapped up in some way. The pose above is easily transitioned into a prop to get a completely different look, relatively quickly, and without bothering baby at all. The yellow floor drop here is actually a one of a kind hand painted canvas I made! I may have a new obsession! Also, she’s the sweetest thing ever right? This is a photo that should be printed and hung on a wall to enjoy EVERY day. That’s my goal for all of my photos, daily enjoyment <3
This family may look familiar, as I shot mom and dad’s wedding when I first started out, and shot big brother’s newborn photos a couple of years ago. I love watching families grow and helping preserve memories.
The last couple of years I have been trying to break into fine art graduation photography; but between the fire last year and having a spring baby this year it hasn’t really worked out. I’m determined that next year will be my “Third time’s the charm” year though! In preparation I did manage to get together with this sweet and stunning member of 2017’s graduating class from Westwood High School. Even though the weather prevented us from doing multiple dates to include a casual look, I think it’s important to incorporate the school as well as a more whimsical location, so we made sure to do that. The first few photos are taken within steps of the Westwood Entrance, while a nearby park was the second location.
I’m a strong believer that beautiful photos can be taken anywhere, and the light has a lot more to do with the beauty of a photo than the location. However trees never hurt! She was rocking the poses and fierce and powerful looks to celebrate her fierce and powerful self!
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